Well it happened, shortly after my last post it was decided that my friend needed more care than I could provide so she went back to the nursing home. She seems to be slipping away, I suppose it's the two stroke's she has had but it's weird that her symptoms mimics dementia or alzheimer's. I worry about her and that's never good for my diabetes. My worrying about her ,causes me to neglect  my diet and can even cause me to stress eat and that is never good even if I take my insulin .